From the Rule of Benedict (Chap. 67):
When brethren return from a journey, . . . let no one presume to tell another whatever he may have seen or heard outside of the monastery, because this causes very great harm.
From Praying with Saint Benedict:
A few years ago, I occasionally went to Salem, our state capital, for meetings of educators from around Oregon. I would jump in my car, check my fuel level, back out of my driveway, and hit the road. In about fifty to sixty minutes I’d be there. For the most part, it was an uneventful trip, and many times, I arrived without remembering anything about the ride.
Traveling in the sixth century was a different matter. The Roman Empire had collapsed in the West, and Europe was being overrun by barbarian tribes. Most likely, the monks traveled on foot and were likely to encounter all manner of people and circumstances. Prayers for their journey were undeniably necessary, and they returned with their heads full of the sights and smells and temptations experienced on their travel adventure. Benedict wanted to preserve the sacred, sanctuary nature of the monastery. Tales of the traveler’s experiences would not necessarily be very edifying, especially to the young monks.
Parents certainly know how to censor their conversation around their children. Benedict must have had the same concerns around his novices and younger monks. Restraint of speech involves asking yourself, Is it necessary to say this? before telling about your various adventures in the world. Would what I have to say benefit or uplift those who are listening?
Prayer
God of great wisdom, guard those who travel. Guide their paths and keep them safe. Guard also my lips when I have stories to tell, and give me the wisdom to restrain my tongue. Amen.
Improbable Benedictine 